Helping You Overcome

Psychosexual Dysfunction

Is something holding you back in the bedroom? I can help

It is perhaps not surprising that in modern society people experience some form of sexual dysfunction. Given all the freely available insights into sexual performance, it can expose/leave someone expecting world-class performance, and if this is not achieved then they feel like a failure.

Very often there is little real opportunity to explore this in a safe environment where there is no judgement. Simply an opportunity to say freely what the concern is.

Working with me, you can expect to be listened to and the underlying influence which is likely to be one of shame, embarrassment or guilt, to be explored in a respectful way.

You may be unhappy with your performance

You may want to improve your sexual enjoyment in some way

You may have some physiological symptom where there is an associated psychological factor (medical advice may well be included to ensure a satisfactory outcome)

Some psychological factor may be affecting the sexual drive


1 in 3 young and middle-aged women suffer from some from of sexual dysfunction


1 in 2 older women Suffer from some from of sexual dysfunction


1 in 10 men has a problem related to having sex, such as premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction.

* Statistics taken from the NHS website.   You can read more on female sexual dysfunction stats here or find out more on male dysfunction stats here

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How do we overcome sexual dysfunction?

The human condition is exciting but full of so many contradictions: why when sex can be so enjoyable can it be difficult to find pleasure.  Sometimes we can have experiences that interfere significantly with our ability to open up to the possibility of enjoyment.

For many looking beyond the needs of procreation; sex is about pleasure and can even be a deeply spiritual experience so resolving some of our deep inhibitions might be worth investing in.

Sometimes psychological problems can interfere with our ability to have or enjoy sexual experiences. It may be previous experiences have left you afraid of sex or anxious. Perhaps it’s erectile dysfunction. Whatever the presentation, hypnotherapy can help.

Hypnotherapy can often alleviate the limiting psychological factors enabling you to enjoy sex again. Often I don’t even need to know the full details to help overcome the difficulties you are facing.

Hypnotherapy for Sexual Dysfunction

Common fears & problems include:


  • Fear of rejection.
  • Fear of humiliation.
  • Fear of aggression.
  • Inferiority complex.
  • Abandonment fear.
  • Low sexual desire. 
  • Difficulty achieving orgasm
  • Sexual pain disorder
  • Premature ejaculation
  • Erectile dysfunction

Why do we experience sexual dysfunction?


Often people feel uncomfortable discussing the subject of sexual dysfunction. This in itself can help add to the psychological manifestations. We are complex creatures and there can be many reasons we experience problems with sex even if we have a deep desire to experience it and enjoy it.

Many factors influence our subconscious feelings around sex. These can stem from early opinions and beliefs of others, such as sex being dirty or shameful to previous experiences of abuse. We are all unique and the reasons for experiencing psychosexual dysfunction vary greatly. Problems often arise due to physical, environmental, or psychological factors; it is difficult to separate one from the other. For others a physical condition such as diabetes can lead to erectile dysfunction, this can cause anxiety and worry which compounds the problem further.

Some of the common causes include distorted body image, depression, anxiety, physical or emotional trauma, stress, fears and worry.

For some misinformation, religious beliefs and improper sex education can create these subconscious feelings towards sex. They can cause a conflict of values that make sex feel sinful or dirty.  These can then act as a trigger for psychosexual disorders.

The good news is that hypnotherapy can help with the manifestations of psychosexual dysfunction. If you experience difficulties with sexual experiences then reach out via the button below. Everything is confidential and you will be speaking to a professional that has dealt with these problems throughout their career. There is no judgement and you don’t need to explain every detail to me. 

How Can I Help?

Modern therapy techniques can help with all types of psychosexual dysfunction.

The feelings that come with a lack of intimacy include loneliness, embarrassment, guilt and shame.

So don’t delay. Don’t let it get any worse. Take action now. You can learn to take charge of your life again and enjoy sexual relationships again.

The modern approaches I use can be very effective and can work very fast. You can improve in as little as 2 to 3 sessions and usually, the benefits are permanent.

Let’s Do Something About It

Early on we will calibrate where you are so we can track your progress.

We’ll explore in as much depth as you feel comfortable with, what you feel has contributed to or caused your problem and look at ways in which we can release that so that, from the beginning, we are focused on changing your mindset.

We’ll use a variety of modern therapeutic approaches to assist in this process and I’ll teach you tools and techniques to last a lifetime as we move you forward to living life with ease and confidence.